Nigerian Style & Culture
Gele Guide: Types, How to Buy & Tips for Tying
Everything about the Nigerian gele (head tie): aso-oke, damask and auto-gele types, how to choose one for an event, where to buy in Lagos or from abroad, and tying tips.
No Nigerian party look is complete without the gele, the dramatic head tie worn by women at weddings, birthdays and celebrations. Here's how to choose one, where to buy it and how to get it tied, whether you're in Lagos or abroad.
Types of gele
Aso-oke gele
Hand-woven aso-oke is the traditional choice, especially at Yoruba weddings. It's stiff, holds its shape beautifully and often matches the bride's or family's outfit.
Damask and brocade gele
Shiny, structured fabrics that fold crisply. Popular for modern, sculptural styles.
Sego and soft gele
Softer fabrics give rounded, relaxed shapes; they can be harder to keep in place.
Auto-gele
A pre-tied gele on a fitted base that you put on like a hat. It's a lifesaver if you can't tie a gele yourself or can't find a gele stylist where you live.
Choosing a gele for an event
- Aso-ebi events: the gele is often part of the aso-ebi package. Use the official one.
- Otherwise: pick a colour that complements your outfit; metallic tones like gold and silver go with almost anything.
- Consider the venue: very tall gele styles can block views in church or at seated events.
How to tie a gele: the basics
- Start with your hair flat and secure, or wear a thin scarf underneath for grip.
- Hold the gele at the back of your head, with the lower edge at the nape of your neck.
- Bring both ends forward, cross them at the front, then take them back and tie securely.
- Pleat and shape the top section into folds, then tuck loose ends in.
- Adjust in a mirror; small pins can help keep it in place.
Practice makes perfect. Many women hire a gele stylist on the morning of big events; in Lagos they're easy to find, and many cities abroad have Nigerian stylists who do house calls.
Where to buy gele
- In Lagos: fabric and accessory shops in markets like Tejuosho and Balogun sell gele, often alongside matching beads and clutch bags.
- From abroad: gele is light and easy to ship with your fabric. See how to buy aso-ebi from abroad.
Complete the look
Pair your gele with statement earrings, a beaded or metallic clutch and comfortable heels. More ideas in what to wear to a Nigerian wedding, and fabric options in Nigerian fabrics explained.
Frequently asked questions
What is a gele?
A gele is a Nigerian head tie, folded and wrapped into a sculptural shape and worn by women at weddings, parties and special occasions.
What is an auto-gele?
An auto-gele is a pre-tied gele that keeps its shape and is worn like a hat. It is popular with people who cannot tie a gele themselves, especially abroad.
Which gele fabric is easiest to tie?
Stiffer fabrics such as aso-oke and some damasks hold their shape best and are easier for beginners than soft, slippery fabrics.
